I was always surprised when people found out that I almost
always traveled alone (both at home and abroad). I usually hear the words
"Are not you afraid to travel alone?" Or "Can you eat dinner
alone?"
I think it is interesting that in our society men often
travel alone, usually to work perfectly. However, it seems a pity that I feel
as though my life is so sad because I travel alone. Well I went to England,
Germany, Spain and Turkey alone, I must tell you that I have an unbelievable
time! If you will have mercy, poor women who do not venture on their own
because we allow the community to tell them unsafe or sad.
Of course, as a single woman, I must be careful when I am
traveling abroad, although I will argue that men should be careful when
traveling alone. Here are some of my tips:
1. Research, research, research
I always study the map, study the city I'm going to. I'm
sure I arrived in the morning (or at least during the day) and I am familiar
with the public transport system or have already arranged transportation to my
hotel. I also pay special attention to understanding the city's layout and
safer community. In my opinion, it is worth to pay more for a safe hotel in a
good neighborhood when you travel by yourself. Also, to live in a more
reputable hotel you can learn about the hotel staff who can be very helpful and
accommodating.
2. Safety should be the first one
You should not do something when traveling on your own
(especially abroad). There's a night party. If this is the type of travel you
are looking for, you should really go with your friends. However, if you are
seeking to learn and explore new cultures, nothing immerse yourself in
yourself.
3. Use daylight hours
I get up early and look as far as I can before sunset. If I
want to go out after dark (I seldom do), I always squandered for a taxi. Often,
I usually get too tired late at night even though I socialize in the hotel
during the night or relax in my room (I like to explore the new city on foot).
The last note about safety always be cautious about who you talk to. I seldom
say I am traveling alone. When asked, I usually joked that my friend was a
party animal and that I just wanted to visit the museum.
4. Confident.
Because I studied before I left, I already knew what to do
and how to fix it. With such confidence will make you less goals. If you look
capable and like you know what you're doing, nobody will bother you!
5. Believe in your instincts (I call it instinct).
When traveling, I always believe my instincts, even though
my reaction seems unreasonable. If I feel uncomfortable at any time, I will be
relieved from this situation. However, your instincts will be more reliable as
you work hard to constantly recognize your surroundings. For example, one
evening in Florence, I was trapped in the darkness after passing a
not-so-pretty town. I noticed someone following me. He can go in the same
direction now, but my intuition tells me to be careful. I know there's a
24-hour McDonald's in the corner, and I hide inside until I can not see it. If
someone harasses you, another favorite I like is walking with a group of
tourists and acting like you!
Of course, sometimes I feel lonely, depressed or worried
when I travel, but I very much doubt that these are just personal travelers'
feelings. The reality is that few of the same people travel the same way and
schedule. I am fortunate to be able to live abroad in the summer. None of my
friends or family could do that, so I accepted traveling alone. I like to be
able to explore as many churches, museums and historic sites as I can, eat,
sleep and relax at the time and place I want, without worrying about other
people! Do not let alone the fear that you can not see this world!
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